I've been hunting deer here in Pa. since 1964. I have killed 34, missed at least 12 and have had 1 that I tracked for hours, all day and never found it. That one was shot with a Winchester Model 94, .32 Winchester Special and that one I will write off to poor shot placement. I have killed the majority with a Remington Model 760 Gamemaster, .30-06 with 150 grain Remington Core Lokt. Most were shot between 30 and 50 yards due to the terrain hunted. Also, some were killed with a Marlin Model 1894 .44 Magnum using Remington 240 grain or Hornady LEVERevolution 225 grain. I have NEVER experienced what you are describing as far as meat damage. I have never run into a deer hunter with a .357 magnum, not that there aren't some out there. And I am sure that there are success stories concerning killing deer with that caliber. But personally, the only way that I would hunt deer with a .357 Magnum, would be if I was guaranteed that the deer would walk directly under my tree. The .30-06, .30-30 and .35 Remington are the most popular deer rifles in my neck of the woods. With a couple of .270's, 7MM Magnums and .243's thrown in. I don't hunt bear here, but if I did I would use something bigger than a .357 Magnum. But all kidding aside, I would say that personally, 50 yards would be the maximum distance for me to want to try a shot at a deer with the .357 Magnum.