I am not an expert, but I do know what others may say.
TRY it before you buy it. Rent a few different at the range and then decide. Snappy to you is mild to me. A good grip to you may be uncomfortable to me. I would get some ideas here then go rent a few and then decide. You may notice that after 50 rounds, the Glock 42 is really a piece of garbage.......or maybe not.
It can get expensive if you keep trading and buying to find the right one..